"Who am I" isn't a question you answer once. It's one you come back to. In this episode of Guys & Chai, Ankur Varma sits down with Rahim Thawer — psychotherapist, educator, writer, and author of The Mental Health Guide for Cis and Trans Queer Guys — for a conversation about what it costs to find yourself when the community that raised you has already answered that question for you.

In our first episode ever of Guys N' Chai, Ankur Varma is joined by Rahul Sharma, founder of Funkadesi, psychologist, and educator joins to discuss everything from evaporated milk in his family chai recipe to Kenya and now to his secret CHAI recipe.

Kunal Makwana lost his father at seven. He built his life around what that loss taught him. In this episode of Guys N’ Chai, Ankur Varma sits down with Kunal, founder of KMAK Fitness, and one of the most recognized South Asian fitness coaches in the world for a conversation about identity, grief, immigration, and what happens when a brown kid refuses to take the path everyone expects.